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Please read the TOS (Terms Of Service) prior to contacting us.
This policy is issued by RateMyDates.com, referred to herein as "we," "us," "RateMyDates," or "our." Welcome to RateMyDates.com — a nationwide platform designed to promote safer, more transparent, and respectful dating and social experiences for college students across the United States. Our platform empowers individuals to anonymously share personal experiences, observations, and insights about their social interactions and dating encounters in order to help others make informed decisions and foster a positive community culture on and off campus.
By accessing or using RateMyDates.com, you agree to be bound by the terms and conditions outlined in this Terms of Service and Privacy Policy (collectively, the “Agreement”). This Agreement governs your access to and use of the platform, including any content, functionality, and services offered. If you do not agree with any part of this Agreement, you must not access or use the platform. We reserve the right to modify, update, or revise these terms at any time, and such changes will become effective upon posting. Your continued use of the platform constitutes acceptance of any and all updated terms, so we encourage you to review this Agreement regularly.
To report a review, please include the name of the profile, the review number, and clearly specify which guideline you believe has been violated. Submissions are reviewed with the assistance of language models to help ensure consistency and fairness in moderation. If you do not receive a response within 10-12 days, it is likely that the review was determined not to be in violation of our guidelines.
RateMyDates is not subject to the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR), as we do not operate within or target users located in the European Union.
We are also not subject to the California Privacy Rights Act (CPRA), as we do not meet any of the following applicability thresholds:
https://oag.ca.gov/privacy/ccpa#collapse5
RateMyDates operates as a user-generated content platform, facilitating the anonymous sharing of dating and social experiences among college students across the United States. The legal structure and purpose of RateMyDates are comparable to those of other well-established platforms, including RateMyProfessor, Lulu, GauchoGuys, and mainstream social media networks such as Facebook, Instagram, and X (formerly Twitter). These platforms have long served as examples of protected expression under U.S. law, provided they operate within legal boundaries and enforce basic content moderation practices.
RateMyProfessor allows students to publicly review and rate professors, often without requiring sign-ins or identity verification. Courts have recognized that such platforms operate within the boundaries of protected speech, so long as defamatory or unlawful content is appropriately addressed. Similarly, RateMyDates provides a forum for students to share their social experiences in a way that supports community safety and transparency, without endorsing or amplifying harmful or false content.
Lulu was a mobile app that enabled women to rate men anonymously based on their dating experiences. While the app no longer operates, it established a precedent for how anonymous commentary in social contexts can be protected when used responsibly. RateMyDates draws from this model by enabling feedback that is intended to be constructive, truthful, and respectful, with clear content guidelines and moderation procedures in place.
GauchoGuys is another user-generated review platform that allows individuals to anonymously share insights and experiences related to dating in specific college communities. Like GauchoGuys, RateMyDates emphasizes anonymity, safety, and community empowerment, while also maintaining moderation standards that prohibit unlawful, defamatory, or personally identifying content. The operational similarity further supports the legitimacy and legal grounding of platforms that center around user expression and personal experience.
Major platforms such as Facebook, Instagram, and X (Twitter) allow users to express opinions about others, including public figures and peers, under the protections of the First Amendment. While these platforms are also subject to content moderation obligations, they are not held liable for user-generated content under Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act. RateMyDates follows the same model by providing open, anonymous commentary while actively moderating flagged content in good faith.
RateMyDates strictly prohibits the act of doxxing, which is defined as the intentional publication, sharing, or dissemination of personal identifying information (PII) about another individual without their explicit consent. This includes, but is not limited to, full legal names (when not publicly known), addresses, phone numbers, email addresses, social media handles, school schedules, place of employment, or any other information that could reasonably be used to identify, contact, locate, or harass a person.
Users are expressly forbidden from including any form of PII in profile content, reviews, or comments posted on the platform. Violation of this clause will result in the immediate removal of the content in question and may lead to account suspension, permanent bans, and/or reporting to appropriate authorities if applicable.
RateMyDates reserves the right to take appropriate action, including legal recourse, against any user found engaging in or facilitating doxxing behavior. Our goal is to maintain a respectful, anonymous, and legally compliant environment for all users.
RateMyDates is committed to fostering a safe, respectful, and lawful community. As such, all users are strictly prohibited from using the platform to harass, threaten, stalk, intimidate, or otherwise cause distress or harm to any individual or group.
For the purposes of this policy, “harassment” is defined as a knowing and willful course of conduct directed at a specific person that a reasonable person would consider seriously alarming, seriously annoying, seriously tormenting, or seriously terrorizing, and that serves no legitimate purpose, in accordance with California Penal Code § 653.2.
Examples of prohibited conduct include, but are not limited to:
Violation of this policy may result in the removal of offending content, suspension or termination of your account, and potential disclosure to law enforcement authorities as required by law.
RateMyDates complies with the California Online Privacy Protection Act (CalOPPA), which governs the collection and handling of personally identifiable information (PII) from California residents.
Please note that CalOPPA applies exclusively to information collected from users themselves, not to content submitted by users about third parties. As part of our standard operation, RateMyDates may collect and store certain categories of PII, including:
We do not sell, rent, or disclose this information to third parties for marketing or commercial purposes. However, we reserve the right to disclose such information if required to comply with legal obligations, enforce our Terms of Service, respond to lawful requests from public authorities, or investigate violations of our platform policies.
By using RateMyDates, you consent to the collection and limited use of this information as described above.
Users who believe a review violates the platform’s content guidelines or applicable laws may submit a formal request for removal. Requests must clearly identify the profile in question, the specific review, and the guideline or policy that has been violated. If the review is found to be in breach of our Terms of Service, RateMyDates will remove the content at no cost to the affected individual.
Additionally, RateMyDates offers an optional profile claiming service, which allows individuals to verify their identity and claim ownership of a profile associated with their name or likeness. Claimed account holders are granted expanded control over the content displayed on their profile, including the ability to remove or manage posted reviews at their discretion. A service fee may apply for the claiming process, which includes identity verification and access to administrative tools.
All review removals and profile actions are subject to our moderation standards and internal review process. RateMyDates reserves the right to deny removal requests that do not meet the criteria for content violations or that are inconsistent with our platform policies.
To the fullest extent permitted by applicable law, RateMyDates, its affiliates, officers, directors, employees, and agents shall not be held liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, consequential, special, punitive, or exemplary damages arising out of or related to your use of, or inability to use, the platform — including but not limited to damages for loss of profits, goodwill, data, or other intangible losses — even if RateMyDates has been advised of the possibility of such damages.
By using the platform, you acknowledge and agree that you are solely responsible for your interactions, communications, and the content you choose to submit, view, or rely upon. RateMyDates does not guarantee the accuracy, reliability, or legality of any user-generated content, and assumes no responsibility or liability for any claims, disputes, or damages that may arise as a result of user conduct or content displayed on the platform.
This limitation of liability applies regardless of the form of action, whether in contract, tort, strict liability, or otherwise, and will survive any termination of your access to the platform.
RateMyDates is available for use by individuals nationwide, regardless of geographic location. While the platform may be marketed to or used predominantly within certain college communities, its availability is not restricted to any specific state, region, or locality.
All users are required to submit reviews that are based on first-hand experiences and truthful representations. You may only post a review about an individual you personally know or have interacted with in a relevant social or dating context. Submitting false, misleading, or fabricated information is strictly prohibited and may result in content removal, account suspension, or other enforcement actions in accordance with our moderation policies.
You agree to use RateMyDates only for lawful and appropriate purposes. The following actions are strictly prohibited and constitute a violation of these Terms of Service:
Violation of any of the above restrictions may result in content removal, temporary or permanent suspension of your access to the platform, and/or an IP address ban. RateMyDates reserves the right to take any additional action deemed necessary to enforce these rules and maintain the integrity and safety of the platform.
The RateMyDates platform and all related content and services are provided on an “as is” and “as available” basis, without warranties of any kind, whether express, implied, or statutory. This includes, but is not limited to, any implied warranties of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, non-infringement, accuracy, or uninterrupted access.
RateMyDates makes no representations or guarantees that the platform will be secure, error-free, uninterrupted, or available at all times. You acknowledge that your use of the platform is at your sole risk.
To the fullest extent permitted by law, RateMyDates and its affiliates, officers, directors, employees, contractors, and agents shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, punitive, or exemplary damages arising out of or related to your use of, or inability to use, the platform. This includes, but is not limited to, damages for loss of profits, data, goodwill, or other intangible losses, even if RateMyDates has been advised of the possibility of such damages.
Some jurisdictions do not allow the exclusion or limitation of certain warranties or liabilities, so some of the above exclusions may not apply to you. In such cases, RateMyDates’ liability shall be limited to the maximum extent permitted by law.
You agree to indemnify, defend, and hold harmless RateMyDates, its affiliates, officers, directors, employees, contractors, and agents from and against any and all claims, demands, liabilities, damages, losses, costs, and expenses — including reasonable attorneys’ fees and legal costs — arising out of or related to:
This indemnification obligation shall survive the termination or suspension of your access to the platform and remains enforceable to the fullest extent permitted by law.
By submitting content to RateMyDates — including but not limited to reviews, comments, or profile-related materials — you grant RateMyDates a non-exclusive, royalty-free, worldwide, perpetual, and irrevocable license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, display, distribute, and incorporate such content in promotional, marketing, or informational materials, both on and off the platform.
This may include, but is not limited to, showcasing anonymized or representative excerpts from user reviews in advertisements, social media campaigns, press materials, or other public-facing communications. RateMyDates will not use personally identifying information in promotional content without your explicit consent.
By submitting content, you represent and warrant that you have the legal right to do so and that such content does not violate any third-party rights or applicable laws.
If you believe that content hosted on RateMyDates violates your legal rights, you may submit a formal cease and desist request for our review. All such requests must be submitted via email in PDF format and include the subject line "[LEGAL]" to ensure proper routing and handling.
Your submission must clearly identify:
We encourage all parties to thoroughly review these Terms of Service prior to submission to ensure the claim is relevant to our policies and scope of responsibility. While we reserve the right to deny requests that are unsubstantiated or outside our legal obligations, we are committed to reviewing and responding to valid legal concerns in good faith — including those involving less common or nuanced legal issues.
Please note that submission of a cease and desist request does not guarantee removal or modification of content. All requests are subject to legal review and platform policy standards.
RateMyDates operates under the protections afforded by Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act (47 U.S.C. § 230), which establishes that interactive computer services are not liable for content created or posted by third-party users. Accordingly, RateMyDates does not assume responsibility for the accuracy, legality, or appropriateness of user-generated content published on the platform.
Although we are not legally required to moderate all content, RateMyDates is committed to reviewing and addressing reports of content violations in good faith. Our content moderation process is guided by our community guidelines, legal obligations, and a commitment to safety and fairness. Any content found to be defamatory, abusive, harassing, or otherwise unlawful may be removed at our sole discretion.
While the platform offers certain paid services — such as profile claiming and enhanced content control — these features do not influence our decision-making regarding moderation. We maintain an impartial approach to enforcement to ensure that all users are treated equitably, regardless of payment status.
RateMyDates reserves the right to remove or restrict access to any content for any reason not prohibited by law, and such action shall not be deemed a waiver of the platform’s Section 230 protections.
RateMyDates is organized and operated as a Limited Liability Company (LLC). This business structure provides legal and financial separation between the company and its individual members, ensuring limited personal liability while maintaining flexibility in operations.
The LLC structure also supports the platform’s ability to maintain a degree of operational privacy, consistent with applicable state and federal laws. RateMyDates complies with all relevant legal, regulatory, and reporting obligations required of a U.S.-based limited liability company.
For legal correspondence, formal notices, or questions regarding the legal status of RateMyDates, please refer to the contact details provided in this Terms of Service or within our Privacy Policy. All legal inquiries will be reviewed and addressed in accordance with applicable law and platform policy.
RateMyDates shall not be held liable for any failure or delay in performance, availability, or fulfillment of obligations under these Terms of Service when such failure or delay results from causes beyond our reasonable control. These may include, but are not limited to:
Such events shall not constitute a breach of this agreement. RateMyDates will make reasonable efforts to resume service as soon as practicable, but shall not be liable for any loss, damage, or inconvenience resulting from the interruption.
RateMyDates provides users with the ability to claim their profiles for enhanced control over the content associated with their name or likeness. This includes the option to remove reviews at their discretion after successfully completing the identity verification and profile claiming process. Similar to widely recognized platforms such as YouTube and Instagram, which allow individuals to manage or remove third-party content related to their accounts, RateMyDates offers a comparable feature through its paid profile claiming service.
Use of Personal Identifying Information (PII)
Users are strictly prohibited from disclosing personal identifying information (PII) in any content
submitted to the platform. This includes, but is not limited to, addresses, phone numbers, email
addresses, government-issued identifiers, or other sensitive data that could reasonably be used to
identify, locate, or contact an individual without consent.
Full names, when used in isolation and not paired with high-risk information, are generally not considered PII under U.S. law. The use of a person's name in commentary or public discussion — including on platforms such as Facebook, X (formerly Twitter), and others — is typically protected by the First Amendment, provided it does not rise to the level of harassment, defamation, or an invasion of privacy.
Legal Context and Platform Protections
RateMyDates functions similarly to platforms such as RateMyProfessor, Lulu, and various social media
networks by offering a forum for anonymous opinion sharing and experience-based expression. These
forms of speech are legally protected under the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution and further
reinforced by Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act (47 U.S.C. § 230), which shields platforms
from liability for third-party content, so long as they operate within the law and maintain responsible
moderation practices.
As long as RateMyDates continues to enforce safeguards against illegal or harmful content — including content that may constitute defamation, harassment, doxxing, or unlawful disclosure of private facts — it remains within the bounds of established free speech and content moderation protections under U.S. law.
RateMyDates does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any user-submitted reviews displayed on the platform. Reviews are based on individual user experiences and personal opinions, which may be subjective, inconsistent, or incomplete.
Some profiles may have been claimed by the individuals they reference. In such cases, the profile owner may have exercised their right to remove one or more reviews in accordance with the platform’s content removal and account claiming policies. As a result, the content displayed on a given profile may not represent the full history of submitted reviews or reflect a comprehensive or balanced view of the individual in question.
By using the platform, you acknowledge and agree that:
Users are advised to interpret all content on the platform with discretion and to consider the subjective nature of anonymous user reviews.
By initiating the profile claiming process on RateMyDates, you affirm under penalty of perjury that you are the individual who is accurately and lawfully represented by the profile in question. You further agree that:
RateMyDates reserves the right to request additional verification documentation, reject any claim it deems suspicious or unsupported, and take appropriate action against fraudulent claims, including but not limited to suspension, removal of access, or referral to law enforcement where necessary.
RateMyDates is committed to fostering an inclusive, respectful, and equitable environment for all users, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race, ethnicity, or background. In compliance with applicable anti-discrimination laws and in alignment with our platform values, all users—regardless of gender identity—are welcome to access, participate in, and contribute to the platform.
Users of any gender may create profiles, view reviews, and submit reviews about individuals of any gender. We recognize that respectful, constructive feedback and shared experiences are important in all types of social and dating interactions, and we support open expression within the boundaries of our community guidelines and content policies.
Discriminatory content, including hate speech, targeted harassment, or derogatory remarks based on gender or other protected characteristics, is strictly prohibited and will result in content removal and potential account sanctions.
RateMyDates stands firmly for equal access and respectful engagement across all identities and communities.
By creating an account on RateMyDates or signing in through a third-party authentication service, you acknowledge and expressly consent to receive email communications from us. These communications may include, but are not limited to:
You may opt out of receiving promotional emails at any time by following the unsubscribe instructions included in the footer of such communications. However, please note that certain service-related messages — including those regarding account activity, legal updates, or platform functionality — are considered essential and may not be opted out of while your account remains active.
By using any paid services on RateMyDates, including but not limited to profile claiming or content management tools, you agree to abide by the associated payment terms and refund policies.
In the event that you initiate a chargeback or payment dispute through your financial institution for services previously rendered, RateMyDates reserves the right to take corrective action, including but not limited to the reinstatement of any previously removed reviews, restriction of account access, or permanent revocation of account privileges.
Chargebacks made in bad faith or without first contacting RateMyDates for resolution may be treated as a violation of these Terms of Service. We encourage users to reach out to our support team with any billing concerns prior to disputing a charge.
Users who have claimed a profile or subscribed to any paid services on RateMyDates may cancel their subscription at any time by logging into their account and selecting the “Unclaim” option on their profile. Follow the on-screen instructions to complete the cancellation process.
Please note that cancellation will revoke access to any premium features associated with the claimed profile, including the ability to manage or remove reviews. Cancellation requests are effective immediately upon confirmation, and RateMyDates does not guarantee refunds for partially used subscription periods unless otherwise required by law or stated in our Refund Policy.
If you encounter any issues during the cancellation process, please contact our support team for assistance.
Pursuant to Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act (47 U.S.C. § 230), RateMyDates reserves the right to remove, restrict, or moderate any user-generated content at its sole discretion, provided such actions are not taken in a fraudulent, deceptive, or unlawfully discriminatory manner.
For the purpose of maintaining a safe, trustworthy, and constructive platform environment, RateMyDates may remove content — including reviews — that, while not necessarily in direct violation of platform policies or legal standards, is deemed by moderators to be:
Such decisions are made with transparency, fairness, and platform integrity in mind.
It is important to note that not all content which appears inappropriate or offensive necessarily rises to the level of being illegal. As of the date of this policy, RateMyDates is not subject to any legal judgments or restrictions that would prohibit the operation of this platform or its core review-based functionality.
A. Agreement to Arbitrate
By using RateMyDates, you agree that any dispute, claim, or controversy arising out of or relating
to these Terms of Service, your use of the platform, or any services provided by RateMyDates shall be
resolved through final and binding arbitration rather than in court, except that either party may
bring an individual action in small claims court if the claim qualifies.
B. Arbitration Process
Arbitration shall be conducted in accordance with the rules of the American Arbitration Association
(AAA) or another neutral arbitration provider mutually agreed upon by the parties. The arbitration
shall be conducted by a single, neutral arbitrator. Unless otherwise agreed, arbitration will take
place remotely or in a mutually convenient location. Judgment on the arbitrator’s award may be
entered in any court of competent jurisdiction.
C. No Class Actions
You agree that any arbitration or legal proceeding shall be conducted only on an individual basis
and not in a class, consolidated, or representative action. You further agree to waive the right to
participate in a class action, collective action, or other representative proceeding. The arbitrator
shall not have the authority to combine or aggregate claims or award relief on a class-wide basis.
D. Governing Law
This arbitration agreement shall be governed by the Federal Arbitration Act and applicable U.S.
federal law, without regard to conflict of laws principles.
E. Exceptions
Notwithstanding the foregoing, either party may seek injunctive or equitable relief in a court of
competent jurisdiction to prevent actual or threatened infringement, misappropriation, or violation
of intellectual property rights or confidential information.
F. Opt-Out Right
You may opt out of this arbitration agreement by sending a written notice to legal@ratemydates.com
within 30 days of your first use of the platform. Your opt-out must include your full name, account
information, and a clear statement that you wish to opt out of arbitration. If you opt out, all other
provisions of this Agreement shall continue to apply.
RateMyDates is intended solely for individuals who are 18 years of age or older. By accessing or using the platform, you affirm that you are at least 18 years old and have the legal capacity to enter into a binding agreement. The platform is not designed for, targeted at, or intended to be used by minors under the age of 18.
We do not knowingly collect, solicit, or maintain personal information from individuals under the age of 18. If we become aware that personal information has been collected from a user under 18, we will take immediate steps to delete the information and deactivate the associated account.
If you are a parent or legal guardian and believe that your child under the age of 18 has submitted personal information to RateMyDates, please contact us at 1496aqxc13249ag@proton.me so we can investigate and promptly take appropriate action.